6.07.2010

Crabs make the world a better place...

At least the kind you eat do! We had a nice weekend... I got to talk to my godmother, and another one of my godsisters, and although painful it was also cathartic. The funeral is this Friday, so I'm heading down to St. Augustine on Thursday... I'll be glad to give and get hugs... We had a nice weekend. Went to a friend's house on Saturday night for a bbq and then went up to MD to get crabs with another friend yesterday... We have this little shack we go to - and somehow, they've managed to recreate a bit of key west on the Potomac in Maryland... I love just spending a few hours in good conversation, and in no hurry to do anything. Brought the sand toys for the kids which kept them busy too...
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I just read Draz's post on friends and BFF's... I guess (I know) I am really lucky because I have 7 women at least who I consider to be BFF's (not including some family members)... They are all friends in different ways and for different reasons... 3 from elementary school, 1 in Florida (one of my godsisters) and another 3 whom I consider to be my BF's here in Richmond... I just treasure them so much - all of them - it's tough work to keep friends going strong, but worth every second. And I love that we ebb and flow, like tides d0 - some I only talk to a few times a year but when I do it is like we pick up where we left off without a stumble... others I talk to weekly and then some daily... I remember so clearly growing up my dad telling me when I left to go to boarding school that it was going to be my responsibility to keep my friendships strong. I kind of understood that then, but I really do now - I can't wait for them to call me or email me, if I want them to stay strong friends, I have to make the effort... Easier said than done sometimes - and I drop the ball a lot, but I really am so thankful for all of the friends I do have. I know that they will be there for me (and are). So thanks to all of you who know who you are!
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Here are a few pix from this weekend, including one of one of my friends here in Richmond mentioned above, Candace.
Dennis & Me
Candace & Chris
Zach, Ben & Lucia
Playing in the sand
Lucia just chillin'

10 comments:

Jacquie said...

I am glad you had a great weekend Sarah!

I am about 45 minutes away from St. Augustine although you will probably not have any spare time. I just wanted to let you know in case you did have a few minutes to meet for coffee or something.

I am so sorry for your loss---(((hugs)))

Steph said...

Looks like you all had a great time! I have family that lived in Maryland and it was just such a pretty state.. Have a safe trip to St. Augustine!

Girl Bandit said...

Looks like a great place. Glad to see you enjying yourself

Jacquie said...

I am south of SA and normally it would not be a problem and I would have happily driven to Jacksonville but unfortunately, I have a 3:30 appointment with an Attorney regarding my fathers estate and that is about 1 hour south of where I live in Ormond Beach!

Let me know your plans for the July Memorial Service and I will do my best to move heaven and earth as I'd love to meet up with you and I am not afraid of driving so don't worry about that!

Colls said...

I love MD crabs! My family used to go to OC every year for vacation and it always involved multiple all you can eat crab trips! I am so glad that you enjoyed your weekend! <3

Kristin said...

You look great, Sarah. And I couldn't agree more that friends are key to keeping life sane.

Jenny said...

I'm very sorry for your loss. I hope some time with your family and friends helps you.

♥ Drazil ♥ said...

I wish I was there to hug you...be well...my sweets.

Susan said...

I'm so sorry for your loss. He sounds like a wonderful man. Big hugs.

Liz - Lizzle - Libby Lou said...

Lovely to have chill time! Looks like it was very nice!